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What Happens When I Die?

What Happens When I Die?

The question of what happens when I die or after death has been pondered for centuries. Where does the soul go? Is it painful? Is it scary? While no one can definitively answer this question, personal experiences, spiritual insights, and stories from those who’ve been near the end of life provide us with glimpses of understanding.

Through my own journey—witnessing loved ones’ passing, visiting palliative care centres, and experiencing spiritual mediumship—I’ve formed insights that I hope will bring comfort and clarity.


Will I Be Alone When I Die?

Many people fear dying alone but rest assured, no one truly dies alone. Even if there are no physical companions at the bedside, the dying are often surrounded by their loved ones in spirit and angelic guides.

It is common for those nearing death to call out to departed loved ones—parents, partners, or siblings. Many report seeing angels or feeling the presence of Archangel Azrael, known as the Angel of Death, who lovingly guides souls to the other side.

I have personally witnessed people in their final moments sitting up from a weakened state, calling out to loved ones or seemingly reaching for something unseen. In these moments, it feels as though the soul is preparing to leave the body.

The process of passing involves the release of the soul, often symbolised by the breaking of the silver cord that tethers it to the body. Once the cord is severed, the soul is free, ascending to its next journey.


Your Mindset Can Shape Your Passing

Our thoughts and beliefs have immense power, even at the end of life. As creators of our reality, our mindset can influence how we experience death.

If we are fearful or resistant, we may remain tethered to the earthly plane, unable to see or feel the guides and loved ones waiting for us.

I recall a vivid encounter with a spirit while visiting a palliative care centre. A woman appeared before me, looking lost and frightened. She asked, “What happened? Where am I?” I gently reassured her, pointing towards a light at the end of the corridor. She hesitated, then moved towards the light, and I watched as she gracefully crossed over.

This experience reinforced for me how fear and resistance can temporarily keep a soul from transitioning fully. In such cases, mediums or spiritual healers can assist lost souls in finding their way to the light.


Repeating Patterns in Death

Just as we create patterns in life, we can unconsciously create patterns in death.

You may notice recurring patterns within families—such as generations of men passing away young from heart disease, or women succumbing to similar illnesses like breast cancer. These patterns often stem from unresolved emotional or karmic cycles.

For example, I’ve seen families where a parent’s final years were spent unhappily in a nursing home, causing guilt and shame for their children who felt they failed to honour their wishes. Left unhealed, this guilt can manifest in the children’s own lives, creating a similar end-of-life scenario.

Breaking these patterns requires conscious healing and the release of past burdens.


Manifesting Your Death

Our words and thoughts are powerful creators. The way we speak about our own death can influence how it unfolds.

For example:

  • Saying, “I don’t want to end up in a nursing home” focuses energy on the very thing you wish to avoid.
  • Instead, say, “I want to pass peacefully at home surrounded by loved ones.”

The universe doesn’t hear “don’t.” It hears the energy and intention behind your words, so always frame your desires positively.

Many people unconsciously manifest their endings by repeatedly affirming what they fear. By consciously choosing your words and beliefs about death, you can create a peaceful and aligned transition.


Can I control what happens when I die?

While the timing of our passing is often out of our control, we have significant influence over how it unfolds. By cultivating a peaceful mindset, resolving emotional wounds, and consciously shaping our thoughts about death, we can ensure our final moments align with our desires.


A Final Thought

Death is not something to fear but a transition to another phase of existence. By embracing love, releasing fear, and consciously shaping our beliefs, we can create a beautiful, peaceful end-of-life journey.

Take a moment to reflect:

  • How do you speak about death?
  • Are there unresolved emotions or patterns you need to heal?

Choose to live—and one day pass—with intention, peace, and love.

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